You’ve done the work — but love still feels confusing or out of reach

 

It’s time to break old patterns and build a secure, lasting relationship

 

Discover a psychology-informed dating strategy that helps you understand why you get stuck — and what actually changes it. 


Without labelling yourself, over-analysing every message, or turning dating into another job.

 

 

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Who This Is For

Find Your Person is a warm, practical, psychology-led approach — not gimmicks, games or anxiety-fuelled strategies. It’s for thoughtful, emotionally aware women who want dating to feel calmer, clearer and more grounded, instead of stuck in familiar cycles.

It’s for you if:

  • You get swept up in chemistry, intensity, or fast-forward dynamics
  • You’re great at your job, but dating still feels like guesswork
  • You often start off grounded, but months in you realise your needs aren’t being fully met or you’ve lost a bit of yourself along the way
  • You over-prioritise others and under-prioritise your own needs
  • You spot red flags in hindsight, not early enough
  • You know about attachment — but struggle to apply it in the moments that matter
  • You want dating to feel calmer, clearer and more paced
  • You want to feel able to express yourself authentically and communicate your needs in a grounded, confident way

This isn’t about rules, scripts, or being told who to date.
It’s about building internal clarity so you can make grounded choices without the second-guessing.

There's a calmer, smarter way to date - one that brings better matches and better dates, without making dating your full-time job!

 

Join the Priority List if you're looking for a way to:
  • Date from clarity about what actually works for you — so you stop wasting time on connections that don’t lead anywhere
  • Define your non-negotiables and spot misalignment early, without over-analysing or talking yourself out of it

  • Stay present and authentic on first dates, so conversations naturally deepen

  • Show up grounded and self-possessed from the start, rather than trying to get it “right”
  • Stay emotionally steady and self-trusting when dating feels uncertain — because you can communicate clearly about wobbles and stay centred whatever the outcome
This feels right - I'd like priority access

Priority list members will also receive founder-rate pricing when doors open. 

Introducing 'Find Your Person'

A 6 week programme that helps you uncover your unique strengths and values, gently update unhelpful dating patterns, and create a dating plan that actually works for you.

It’s not about changing who you are — it’s about dating from your healthiest, most grounded self.

 

 

What You'll Get

6 Weeks of Live Group Coaching -

Clear structure, supportive pace, no pressure to overshare

Supportive WhatsApp community -

Optional, warm, and grounded — connection without overwhelm

Step-by-Step Psychological Roadmap -

Short audios, practical tools, realistic experiments that fit real life

What Participants Say

 

Many women say the biggest shift wasn’t “doing dating better” — it was feeling calmer and clearer because they started acting from a more secure place

Emma

“I used to date based on emotion — reacting with panic or uncertainty to other people’s actions. Now I’m much more conscious of my own behaviour, and I’m driving how I want things to go. That feels really nice.”

LJ

“I used to minimise my wants and needs and ended up stuck in relationship loops. This course helped me realise it’s okay to be honest about what I need — and to trust myself when I do.”

Em

“Using the values-based questions in a real dating situation was spot on. For the first time, I felt secure enough to be open and direct.”

Hi - I'm Dr Kate

Clinical Psychologist, Dating Coach, and former “why-is-this-so-hard?!” dater.

Despite being someone who “should know this stuff” — a Clinical Psychologist with years of experience — I still found dating confusing for a long time. I understood the theory, but applying it in real-life moments was a different challenge.

I’d get drawn into intensity, ignore my own needs to keep the connection smooth, and only later realise the early signs of misalignment. Slowing down, understanding my own patterns clearly, and dating in a more grounded, secure way changed everything.

Find Your Person is built from that intersection:
solid psychological principles, lived experience, and practical steps that work in real life.

Warm, evidence-informed guidance — without rules or scripts — to help you date differently from the inside out. 

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A supportive structure to guide the process...

Here’s a gentle overview for those who like to understand the shape of the six weeks — without needing to know every detail upfront.
Clarifying your strengths and values — so dating feels more like you
Understanding and gently interrupting stuck dating patterns
Developing a Positive Dating Plan
Active Dating Using Your Values & Strengths
Real Red & Green Flags You Need to Know
Grounded communication and self-trust for when dating doesn’t go to plan

FAQs

Yes - I'd like priority access

Early access + founder-rate pricing for priority list members.